Alright boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen.  Get your knives out, because in the tradition (at least of the last few weeks) of throwing some kind of tidbit out there for people to wrassle over, I bring you a fun one!

We’ve all heard of them, the nice guy (or Nice Guy, as the case may be.)  Hell I’ve been called myself alternately a “Nice Guy” and a “nice guy” - in some cases the capital N and the lower case N.   This is always a ripe topic for discussion, diversion and dissection — in some cases with some men and women squirming uncomfortably in the corner afterwards.

Tonight, we have point and counterpoint, a writeup of the classic Nice Guy perspective from two points of view.  Read, enjoy, and discuss.

Heartless Bitches International - Why “Nice Guys” are often such LOSERS

best of craigslist : “What Happened to All the Nice Guys?”

I add nothing of my own to either one - as I feel there’s significant amounts of truth to BOTH takes.  How do you feel? 

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Oh yes, I would be amiss if I didn’t throw this in.  Its a third take on Nice Guys — one that takes a much deeper take on the discussion, and one that’s ultimately a bit more balanced overall.   Its also quite a bit longer, and a little too… well.. NICE for the point of this post.    divalion’s “No More Mr. Nice Guy”